So, who’s fault is it, anyway? Who can be the scape goat…”this time”? Folks, WHY do we always go looking for somebody else’s head to put on that chopping block? AMERICANS ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR SOMEBODY…OR…SOMEBODY “ELSE”…TO BLAME!!! This is so very aggravating to me!!! FOLKS, we are ALL imperfect humans…doing the best we can do simply seeking to SURVIVE… LIFE!!! SURVIVAL… that’s it, folks. WE ARE ALL SIMPLY SEEKING TO SURVIVE “LIFE”!!!
Please quit looking for someone to blame…and start looking at every opportunity as a chance to learn and grow. This can be applied to so, so many different situations and different relationships, folks. Now, I know there comes a time when we must ALL admit that some folks have had a bit too many “learning experiences,” but have not…LEARNED A THING!!! Deal with each situation appropriately. Please try to keep things positive.
EXPERIENCE… is the best teacher, right? WE ALL KNOW THIS, RIGHT? Don’t we ALL know this??? Evidently NOT!!! I am now transitioning to a “BIGGER” picture of the blame game…local, state, federal agencies…officials…”THOSE PEOPLE”…that we all like to blame when things go wrong. The President, Governors, agencies(FEMA-I live in FL), etc. They may even be pointing their fingers at one another when things go wrong. Now, “THOSE” are the “PEOPLE” everyone likes to blame for, perhaps, not using “book knowledge” to prepare them for responding appropriately to situations NEVER EXPERIENCED before!!! Book knowledge helps…DEFINITELY!!! BUT…it cannot train you like experience…for…ANYTHING!!!
And the different magnitudes of experiences encountered, definitely, account for that “lack” of preparation or what seems like a “slow” response. People get “shell-shocked”!!! Stunned!!! You know…like…”OMG!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW???!!!” How do you prepare, FULLY, for something you can’t even imagine? We are human, folks. And… LIFE… teaches us new lessons everyday! All I’m asking is that we allow each other to…LEARN THOSE LESSONS.
Cut some slack…”most people”…DO NOT want to make a mistake! When and if one happens…LEARN FROM IT so that you’re better prepared to respond appropriately the next time… to this EXACT same situation or to one of a lesser magnitude.
My main objective with this post is to try and get people to stop looking to blame somebody for being…HUMAN? What??? How can we blame and then be upset with people for making mistakes? For being imperfect. WE ARE ALL IMPERFECT!!! How’s that glass house you live in holding up?
LIVE…AND LEARN… allow yourself…AND…others that opportunity to live and learn. How can we persecute folks for, perhaps, not responding exactly as they should have during their first encounter with a certain type or magnitude of a situation? They will be better prepared next time, right? Isn’t that what we’re expected to do? Things will always get better as long as we keep learning from our mistakes. EXPERIENCE, folks… IS THE BEST TEACHER!!! Accept whatever failures we experience, keen and thankful for the lessons learned.
LIVING AND LEARNING. This is life, folks. Just keep doing the best you can do in a society where NOTHING ever seems to be good enough. All I know is that I appreciate the effort all of us put into simply seeking to survive each day. LIFE IS DIFFICULT!!!
GO TEAM!!! WE”RE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER!!!
ALL GLORY BE TO GOD!!! AMEN!!!