Please just know that no one escapes developing those dreaded “issues”! We ALL have them, but MOST people don’t realize that THEY have ’em!!!. MANY, MANY people may not like certain things about their behaviorisms, or idiosyncrasies. Believe it or not…THERE IS SOMETHING THAT EXPLAINS THEM…SOMEWHERE…
I, truly, believe that everything we do has a reason, or purpose. Otherwise, WHY DO IT? We may react to situations in ways that we do not like, but yet, those reactions seem uncontrollable. Instantaneous heightened emotional reactions to certain situations that make no sense…to ANYONE…but we experience them regularly and uncontrollably. Okay ladies… “SOME” of this may be due to… PMS! Jealousy. Anger. Fear. These feelings are so, so real, but yet they are so, so FALSE!!! (MOST OF THE TIME!!!). “Issues” that are simply “fabricated” to release some of that “inner turmoil”. Sound familiar?
Our minds tend to stay on HIGH ALERT…ready for that on-coming threat that we perceive exists, unnecessarily. We stand…”ARMED”… and ready to “FIRE BACK” AT ALL TIMES!!! WHY??? If we would just “get to know” the personality “quirks” of those teammates we have daily encounters with…than we might actually realize that most of what they say isn’t even directed “AT” us…it’s simply their added “seasoning” to add some flavor to what they are saying!!! HA! Double HAHA!!!
We all come from different backgrounds…what is “funny” to ME may be offensive to others and VICE VERSA… HERE I GO, FOLKS… DARE I? WHY NOT??? 🙂 No worries…I decided not to go there, but to you co-workers, family, and friends who REALLY “know” me: “YOU KNOW EXACTLY WHAT I’M TALKING ABOUT”!!! 😉 Try to keep things “light, bright, and cheery”, okay folks? WE NEED MORE ENJOYMENT IN LIFE!!!
GO TEAM!!! WE’RE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER!!!